It is with a thankful heart I look back on 1 year ago. God is so good and He has been with me every moment of this overwhelming year.
It was one year ago today that I had a colonoscopy done to find/diagnose issues I was having. As I reflect back on that day I ask myself questions like - How have I grown this past year? What did I learn about God? How has God shown me purpose in this journey? I was looking back on my journal and an entry from April 1st caught my eye. I will share some of it with you.
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I wrote the verses from 1 Thes. 5:16-17
"Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing"
If I understand these verses I should always be filled with joy and I should pray about everything.
How does one choose joy when fighting cancer? How does one choose joy when they lost a loved one? How does one choose joy when their teenager is making destructive choices and is difficult to live with? How does one choose joy when pain is a constant part of their day? How does one choose joy when they lost their job? The list is endless - we all have difficult things that are a part of our lives.
Maybe the answer is to pray without ceasing or about everything- that means I give to God whatever matters to me today. It means I don't try to fix problems that are not fixable. It means I trust God enough with my future to not worry today.
Is the reason I choose joy for my benefit or is it for God or even for others? Maybe it's all three! If I choose joy it makes room for peace. If I have peace it means I am giving God permission to work in my life as He wants. If I am at peace my family benefits because peace and being stressed out don't mix. (A stressed out mom/wife is no fun to live with!) And finally if I choose joy in the midst of pain God gets the glory!
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God is working on me and growing my faith. It hurts a lot sometimes to walk through tough stuff but I am learning to look for God in the tough times. He is teaching me to have a grateful heart and learn to thank Him for all the gifts He showers on me every day. Choosing joy is a CHOICE and sometimes I don't FEEL like choosing joy. But the times that I have the courage and strength of heart to turn from the thoughts that steal joy give me courage to keep pressing closer to the One who knows me and loves me enough to walk with me.
Do I trust God enough to choose joy for my journey? Do I respond with joy in trials? What does joy look like in your everyday?
Be blessed and be brave enough to choose joy!
Tuesday, March 17, 2015
Tuesday, March 10, 2015
A restart on blogging!!
I will start this post with an update on where we are in this crazy journey of fighting this cancer. I realize it has been a long time since I updated here. I can't explain it in a way that makes sense but I am just better at talking about stuff than I am writing about it. I always hated creative writing class at school and sometimes writing a blog feels like a creative writing assignment. But I want this to be about sharing with you the reader where we are not only physically but also I want to share some of the thing God is doing in my heart.
The scans we did in January showed there aren't any tumors! We breathed a sigh of relief and praise God every day for the healing work He is doing in my body! My oncologist recommended I do 6 more treatments to knock out any stray cancer cells that might still be there. I am in the middle of those 6 rounds of chemo right now. I do a treatment every other Thursday and bring the chemo home with me in a pump til Saturday when my infusion nurse comes out and unhooks me. I haven't gotten real sick with these treatments but I feel like I have a flu for a couple days and the couch is my best friend. I have 3 more treatments to go!!!!
God has protected my body from sickness and infections in such an incredible way. I haven't spent time in the hospital besides for my surgery in October. My oncologist continues to be amazed at how good my blood work is and he says every time I see him "You look so good and healthy! Just keep doing what you are doing." And every time I remind him that God is healing me!
When I think back since my surgery I am overwhelmed by the goodness of God and all the blessings He has poured out on us. It took a long time for my body to recover from the surgery and I was in a dark place of discouragement and depression for a couple weeks. It felt to me like nothing was getting better and life would never be "normal" again. Well life still isn't normal but it is good any way. My friends and family poured out so much love and support to me and our family over that time and I met God face down on my bed many times. I know God in such a more personal way because of that dark, vulnerable time. I don't wish something like that on anyone but I am so thankful for all God showed me in that time. God is real and He is faithful in our time of need and always! I clearly remember the days when I would stand in the shower and beg Him to give me enough strength to finish my shower and for the day ahead. The verse that says " in our weakness He is made perfect" came alive to me. When I am strong I tend to forget that He is the very breath that I breathe and I am nothing without Him.
These days I am back to being mom and taking care of most of the household chores like doing the laundry, cleaning and cooking. I thank God that I can drive myself places and do the grocery shopping on my own (although I like to take one of the boys along because their muscles come in real handy!).
Our boys have been so incredibly patient and understanding this past year. They have grown in so many ways and I pray they will be better men because of some things they had to deal with. I pray God uses this for good in their lives.
I continue to ask God for purpose in this journey and He shows me good things that happen along the way so many times. Each time someone shares what God is teaching them as they watch me and our family in this journey I thank God for showing me purpose. Because if even one person is drawn closer to God through our story that gives it purpose.
Isaiah 26:3 is one of my favorite verses and reminds me to trust God every day/hour/minute "You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you because he trusts in you" I have peace from God but I need to trust Him in order to be blessed by His peace. So I will keep working in making trust my default instead of worry. Maybe I will talk about that some more another day because it is such an huge part of my journey - this thing of trusting God!
Be blessed!
The scans we did in January showed there aren't any tumors! We breathed a sigh of relief and praise God every day for the healing work He is doing in my body! My oncologist recommended I do 6 more treatments to knock out any stray cancer cells that might still be there. I am in the middle of those 6 rounds of chemo right now. I do a treatment every other Thursday and bring the chemo home with me in a pump til Saturday when my infusion nurse comes out and unhooks me. I haven't gotten real sick with these treatments but I feel like I have a flu for a couple days and the couch is my best friend. I have 3 more treatments to go!!!!
God has protected my body from sickness and infections in such an incredible way. I haven't spent time in the hospital besides for my surgery in October. My oncologist continues to be amazed at how good my blood work is and he says every time I see him "You look so good and healthy! Just keep doing what you are doing." And every time I remind him that God is healing me!
When I think back since my surgery I am overwhelmed by the goodness of God and all the blessings He has poured out on us. It took a long time for my body to recover from the surgery and I was in a dark place of discouragement and depression for a couple weeks. It felt to me like nothing was getting better and life would never be "normal" again. Well life still isn't normal but it is good any way. My friends and family poured out so much love and support to me and our family over that time and I met God face down on my bed many times. I know God in such a more personal way because of that dark, vulnerable time. I don't wish something like that on anyone but I am so thankful for all God showed me in that time. God is real and He is faithful in our time of need and always! I clearly remember the days when I would stand in the shower and beg Him to give me enough strength to finish my shower and for the day ahead. The verse that says " in our weakness He is made perfect" came alive to me. When I am strong I tend to forget that He is the very breath that I breathe and I am nothing without Him.
These days I am back to being mom and taking care of most of the household chores like doing the laundry, cleaning and cooking. I thank God that I can drive myself places and do the grocery shopping on my own (although I like to take one of the boys along because their muscles come in real handy!).
Our boys have been so incredibly patient and understanding this past year. They have grown in so many ways and I pray they will be better men because of some things they had to deal with. I pray God uses this for good in their lives.
I continue to ask God for purpose in this journey and He shows me good things that happen along the way so many times. Each time someone shares what God is teaching them as they watch me and our family in this journey I thank God for showing me purpose. Because if even one person is drawn closer to God through our story that gives it purpose.
Isaiah 26:3 is one of my favorite verses and reminds me to trust God every day/hour/minute "You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you because he trusts in you" I have peace from God but I need to trust Him in order to be blessed by His peace. So I will keep working in making trust my default instead of worry. Maybe I will talk about that some more another day because it is such an huge part of my journey - this thing of trusting God!
Be blessed!
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